Social Seconds

Safety & ID Verification

Social Seconds is designed to feel intentional, respectful, and discreet. Safety, identity verification, private selections, and clear event standards are part of the experience from the beginning.

Identity Verification

Invited participants are required to complete identity verification before attending a Social Seconds event. Verification helps confirm that guests are real people and that basic eligibility requirements, including age, are met.

Identity verification is completed through a secure third-party provider. Social Seconds uses the verification result for event eligibility and does not store raw identity document images or selfies.

Curated Admission

Attendance is by application and invitation. Each room is intentionally limited and curated for balance, flow, and the overall guest experience - not simply filled by maximum headcount.

Invitations, event attendance, and continued access may be declined, paused, or revoked where needed to protect the experience and the people in the room.

Code of Conduct

Guests are expected to engage respectfully, follow the structure of the evening, respect personal boundaries, and maintain confidentiality around other participants and private selections.

Harassment, aggressive behavior, intoxication, pressure, unwanted contact, or breach of confidentiality may result in removal from an event and loss of future access to Social Seconds.

Confidential Matching

Preferences and selections are submitted privately. Guests do not see one another’s selections, and there are no public outcomes, public rankings, or uncomfortable announcements.

Follow-up is handled with discretion, and introductions are shared only where there is mutual interest.

One Introduction at a Time

Social Seconds is designed to slow the pace down. Instead of endless options, disposable swiping, or unclear follow-through, introductions are handled one meaningful connection at a time.

This structure encourages presence, clarity, accountability, and a more respectful alternative to ghosting culture.